How to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

So, here you are nicely sat pretty in your long -standing relationship, you love each other’s company and both are really comfortable in everything you share.  Sex is good, sometimes spontaneous, sometimes funny …… but you would really like to broach the subject of introducing a sex toy into your relationship to spice thing up.

So how do you approach this, after all the last thing you want to do is make your loving and considerate partner feel they don’t quite rock your world, but wouldn’t it be amazing to just spice it up just a little to add to the “ honey it’s sex time” flavour pot !

It’s really important to let your partner know that you are looking to enhance the intimacy and connection you already enjoy together with the introduction of sex toys and you just want to add to the passion and fun you have together to grow and maintain the relationship.

Ok, so far so good, so let’s look at what’s out there, to take you on your pleasure journey.

At the beginning, it’s probably better to start things off small and slow to get the feel of what you both like and what you are comfortable with. Discrete vibrators like the RO 80 7 function bullets are a good starting point to bring into relationship fore play. The size is great since they sit at the end of your fingertips, so not overtly large but boy do they absolutely deliver! Bullet vibrators are generally used for C spot stimulation, but here’s the thing, they are great for teasing and pleasing all the pleasure zones on each -others bodies. When you’re gearing up for a night of pleasure why not use the tip of the bullet on your partners neck, nipples, groin, and perineum to get the” balls” rolling. You can even introduce some soft sensory play with a blindfold to enhance the sensations. Don’t forget bullets are a girl’s best friend so if you want your partner to pleasure you or maybe he wants to watch you get off… they are the perfect bedtime accessory.

Insertable toys are a great next step but do go for a product that is gentle on the eye, if it’s your first time. NIYA 3 is the perfect option with its soft lines, gender neutral colourway and ergonomic design making it easy to be enjoyed in multiple ways for solo or couples play. The finger loop allows the toy to be controlled by the finger to give feather touch body stroking vibrating sensations or use it for stimulation to enjoy an internal or external orgasm. Remember nothing is in tablets of stone, just give it time and learn to know how your body responds and use the vibrations to set the pace. You’ll soon be up and running!

 If your still not quite sure, and the thought of a sex toy still leaves you feeling a bit awkward, why not look at an intimate body massager? NIYA 4 is a discrete but powerful pleasure product that is subtly shaped for external stimulation making it the ideal bedside partner. Use the tip of the product to relax and tease each other, you can also use the tip for C spot stimulation, in fact you can use it anywhere externally and choose one of the ten functions to get you both in the mood for love. The charging base has an ambient light when the product sits in the docking position which adds to the sensual appeal. It’s a really great way to ease yourselves in to introducing yourselves into using sex toys…sorry body massagers!

Now one for the boys! (and also, girls, coz they also get the benefit) this could be your chance to get the things underway without any questions by suggesting some shared pleasure by introducing a vibrating cock ring. Cock Rings work by restricting the blood flow and helping to maintain longer and harder erections. This is where the fun begins as partners can participate by putting the ring into place and then turning the pleasure on. Capture by Rocks Off offers great pleasure options for both him and her, with its classic masculine, comfort design and powerful motor that sends pleasure vibrations to the penis shaft and Vulva during sex. Don’t forget you can still give oral sex and a full hands-on experience e to your man whilst Capture is in play. Now if that doesn’t get him up and ready for action in the bedroom and just begging to all board the sex train to naughty  bedroom romps, nothing will.

Using sex toys to enhance relationships, is exactly that, you don’t have to use them all of the time but what you should do is grab the moment, be spontaneous and just enjoy the ride!